Coping with the Distance

"Sometimes, when one person is missing, the whole world seems depopulated." ~Lamartin

Before accepting this internship, I thought long and hard about the consequences, the main one being separated by distance from my loving boyfriend, Brandon. I eventually chose the internship because I was well aware of the wonderful experience I would receive and all that I would learn, but I knew it would be the hardest thing for our relationship. Before I continue, I would like to mention that I am writing about this subject because this blog is to serve as guidance for students evaluating the possibility of an internship experience. Leaving a love one, family, and friends behind is something that will be very present throughout your entire experience. Upon my decision to take the internship, I immediately worked through a plan on visiting my boyfriend. We decided to see each other (face-to-face) every 3 weeks. Although this will result in a lot of traveling, the two trips I have taken already have been the most worthwhile thing I've done. When you're separated from your loved one, it can feel like something is tearing apart inside you. I would equate this with a broken heart, however, it is a mixed feeling because your heart is not broken, you are still together, you still communicate, laugh, and share moments. The times we have actually together make me never want to leave again, I look forward to being with Brandon once again. I need to point out that Brandon supports me in what I'm doing, he understands that this experience will further my career and my education, he continually asks how work is and encourages me to do well and keep on smiling. When deciding to take an internship, or any job offer, it is important to reflect on how it will affect not only you but the people around you. I know my decision did not make things at all easy for Brandon, but our love for each other holds us together. I am so grateful for this co-op, and I love working for Unilever, but I cannot wait to be back in my little place in Michigan, back in Brandon's warm embrace.